Dating men down low
There are many groups in the United States who would like to be able to say the same thing -- that there are no gay men here.
They would like to deny the presence of homosexuality in their community.
But the creation of an organized, underground subculture largely made up of black men who otherwise live straight lives is a phenomenon of the last decade...
Most date or marry women and engage sexually with men they meet only in anonymous settings like bathhouses and parks or through the Internet.
Rejecting a gay culture they perceive as white and effeminate, many black men have settled on a new identity, with its own vocabulary and customs and its own name: Down Low.
There have always been men – black and white – who have had secret sexual lives with men.
Do you suspect your boyfriend or husband of being on the down low (or on the low)?
Many men in heterosexual relationships have sex with other men unbeknownst to their wives or girlfriends.
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.i wanted to ask all..what's up with these guys that like men..women..hold down there manhood as if they only into women...i mean wassup..asking because my friend gurls brother is what u call a down low brother..guys what if a guy u thought was str8 approach u on giving u oral sex...would u let him suck ur dyck....Although the term originated in the African American community, the behaviors associated with the term are not new and not specific to black men who have sex with men.